Rabbi Korngold is honored to officiate at same-sex weddings, commitment ceremonies, and gay weddings, and will use whatever terminology is comfortable for you and your partner.

The ceremony does not differ greatly from other weddings, with language changes as appropriate. For example, in the Sheva Berachot "bridegroom and bride" becomes "re'im ahuvim," loving companions. Same-sex couples may choose between a traditional ceremony and a B'rit Ahuvim. (See Jewish Weddings) The same options concerning interfaith relationships and non-religious ceremonies are available. (See Interfaith Ceremonies)

Commitment Ceremony or Gay Wedding?
Some homosexual couples prefer to have a “commitment ceremony,” rather than a “gay wedding,” to emphasize that in most states, homosexual couples are not granted the same rights of marriage as heterosexual couples.

Other couples prefer to have a “wedding ceremony,” to emphasize that the commitment made by gays and lesbians is equal to the commitment between heterosexuals.

Whatever you decide, Rabbi Korngold will help you create a ceremony that is uniquely yours and congruent with your values as a couple.

Q: Will the rabbi really get to know us?
A: Rabbi Korngold will work with you for four sessions before your commitment ceremony / wedding. During these meetings you will plan your ceremony and work on a pre-marital preparation program from Life Innovations, Prepare and Enrich™.

The intention of the program is to make sure that you and your partner have talked through all the issues you should discuss before you get married. Most couples find this to be a tremendously rewarding experience, as well as a refreshing chance to focus on the marriage, rather than the wedding. Additionally, the process helps Rabbi Korngold get to know you so that during the ceremony she is able to honestly speak about you.

Q: What if we live out of town or don’t have time for meetings?
A: Many of Rabbi Korngold’s clients live out of town and even overseas. You might choose to fly in for one extended meeting, or do the work by phone. Sometimes the rabbi and the couple meet in person for the first time at the wedding / comittment ceremony, although it often feels like they have known each other for ages. The most important work can be done over the phone in 2 sessions.

Q: What are the fees?
A: Rabbi Korngold’s fees are based on the distance between Boulder, Colorado and your wedding / comittment ceremony site. All meetings are included in the fee. For specifics, email info@adventurerabbi.com, call Rabbi Korngold (303) 417-6200, or click here to have someone contact you now.

Q: Where Do We Start?
A: First, click on the wedding / comittment ceremony that best suits your needs and read more details:

Second, if you have already chosen a date, email info@adventurerabbi.com or call Rabbi Korngold (303) 417-6200 and see if she is available on the date you have chosen.

Third, arrange a complimentary meeting by phone or in person to see if working with Rabbi Korngold is a good fit for you. You need to really “click” with your officiant.

Fourth, once you have decided you would like to work with the rabbi, let her know. She will send you a contract, and once you have paid a deposit, the date will be held for you. At this point, you'll schedule your 4 additional meetings or phone conversations.

Enjoy the process!

Frequently asked wedding questions

Where do we begin?